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  Nowadays everything in life is about success, about having a successful career, living a successful life, doing your best, getting the best, and ultimately, giving your best. Now, when it comes to matters of the heart, the subject is ever more so sensitive. In the forever changing world of dating, how can you decide which way to go, to avoid heartbreak and  disappointments? Here are my 5 tips to avoid just that.   1.Get Your Ducks in the Row Make sure that you're ready to enter the battle field, especially if you haven't dated in a while. When we've just recently broken up, often times the first thing we do is to dive head first into dating, hoping that a new squeeze will help us forget the pain. Sometimes we're lucky and end up on a rebound, where we take more than we give and most likely we end up hurting someone else. But more often than not we end up making many many attempts to secure dates with many many people, attempts that typically lead nowhere. Why? Because our needy vibe is a red flag to people. Give yourself time to heal, be that 3 months, 6 months or more. Love yourself first.     2. Do Your Research Once you're ready, make sure you know which dating site is right for you. Whilst friends and acquaintances can recommend some, based on their experience, you're better off reading up on all that's important. Consumer review sites like ConsumersAdvocate.org are very helpful in this respect. Here I have a chat with Giancarlos Merced about the best dating sites and their specifics:   a. GIANCARLOS, WHAT WAS THE CHOSEN CRITERIA THAT YOU BASED YOUR SELECTION ON? Before we began our research, we decided on three factors that would help us determine what were the best sites for online dating: Match-making software, Features, and Memberships. For Match-making software, we looked beyond personality tests and instead studied their site algorithms that would quantify the sustainability of certain pairings based on comprehensive questionnaires. For features, we took into consideration sites that had fun experiences like virtual games and real-life meet-ups. Having a mobile version was also an important element along with premium options to enhance profiles and increase the chances of improved matchmaking. Finally, even though a lot of these sites had membership options, we gave more weight to sites that lowered your monthly fee the longer you used their service; i.e. one month subscription would set users back $40 per month but three month subscriptions would start at $25 per month.   b. HOW MANY PEOPLE WORKED ON THIS COMPLEX RESEARCH, AND HOW LONG DID IT TAKE? There were a total of five staff members assigned to this complex research. The team was composed of editors, and writers that had a keen interest in finding out the complexities of how online dating sites actually worked. We used more than twenty sources, vetted eleven companies, which took a total of more than two hundred hours of research to complete.   c. HOW DO YOU KEEP YOUR RESEARCH UP TO DATE WHAT WITH THE EVER CHANGING INDUSTRY? To keep our research with the most up to date information in the industry, our team assigns members to revisit our selected websites and verify if anything about their features or language had changed. We do this on a constant basis, or even seasonally, too. We also look up main keywords associated with our selected sites to check for relevant trending topics that our readers might find interesting to know about.   Giancarlos and his team from ConsumerAdvocate.org are doing a wonderful job so that we're not left to our own devices in the confusing world of online dating, but have a clear picture of what's available and what our options are.     3. Be as Honest as Possible in Your Profile Lying about your age and using outdated photos is counterproductive but it happens all the time, with both men and women. Use a combination of great and less than great recent photos, to show the real you. Photos are always deceiving, whether they show you at your best or worst. A combination of both can make the general picture more real. Regarding your age, a tiny bit of fibbing is all right. For example, if you just turned 40 and you put yourself down as 39 and 1/2 in order to fall into a certain category, that's more than acceptable.     4. Be Clear About Your Values The first thing we encounter when we start exchanging messages with a potential date is the sporadic and often unreliable pattern of communication. This should be a red flag from the get go. If dating is not high on their priority list, or meeting and knowing you does not seem to be a priority and they often quote work and personal life issues ( parents visiting, sister being ill, etc.) as their excuse then you're no more than an occasional pastime. Don't play along. Life is short and there are plenty of fish in the sea.     5. Don't Jump to Conclusions It's often the butterflies in the stomach that override any other feeling or clear judgement that can lead to our greatest disappointment.  Keep in mind that a date is just a date, it's not yet a relationship and it won't be for a good while or maybe never. Don't call your date your boyfriend or girlfriend straight away and don't talk about wanting kids on the first date, even if you feel an undeniable connection. Give things time. All in all, date on your own terms. Value yourself, value your time, your own being, be careful with early compromises and never forget to love and respect yourself first. Good luck.  ...

  Guest blog written by: Jason Lee Professional Dating Site Reviewer Our Best Online Dating Sites   What’s the very first thing you look at when you’re browsing through online dating matches? Their hobbies? Their profession? Nope. If we’re all being honest, the first thing that we always look at is someone’s pictures. We have to know if they’re a cutie with a booty or someone who scares little children and incites panic with only a glare. While this may seem shallow, it’s the reality of the world we live in and our nature as humans. We can get over dating someone who likes knitting or works a dirty job, but we’d be hard-pressed to be able to date someone who we weren’t attracted to. This is why no matter how “not shallow” we are, we always look at the photos first. You probably knew that already, but here’s what you may not have realized. If you’re doing this and we’re doing this, and all of our readers are doing this, then it means that everyone who is looking at your profile is doing this too. This means that your online dating photos are your first and possibly only chance to make a good impression on a potential match. So, are your online dating photos up to par? Well, it only takes a few minutes of poking around any dating site to see that everyone (including you) needs some help. As a professional at writing online dating site reviews, I spend hours every day on multiple sites and…how do I put this gently…you should read this post at least twice. To help you increase your online dating success, I’ve compiled the top five mistakes that I see with online dating photos. If you’re committing one of these cardinal sins, you’re hurting your chances of finding that special someone.   Your Photographer Should be Fired     If your dating photos look like they were taken with a potato for a camera, you’ve got issues. The first word that pops into a new matches head should not be “blurry.” When your photos are clear, it accomplishes a few things. First, it allows matches to get a better idea of what you look like. This means they’ll be able to make a more accurate judgement of whether they are attracted to you or not. If you’re blurring your photos on purpose to hide what you look like, you’re just setting yourself up for an awkward (and probably short) first date. We’ll leave that issue for another discussion, though. Second, clear photos instill trust. If your pictures look like they’re hiding something, your potential match is going to think that you’re hiding something too. Invest the time to take a clear photo or get the help of a professional. Hint Hint.   You're Not Telling Anything About You     Online dating profiles might seem like they’re packed full of information at first glance, but in reality, they’re relatively short. You have to convey who you are, how you operate, and what’s important to you in a relatively short amount of space. If you aren’t using your online dating photos to do this for you, you’re making a mistake. Do you like rock climbing? Show people with a photo! Like being outside? Don’t make all of your pictures be of you in front of a white wall in your living room. You don’t have to go crazy with this tip, but you should be aware of it. Plenty of your pictures can be “boring” but make sure that at least a few of them show that you’re more than just a face and a white wall.   You're Compromising Your Security   If there is one blunder on this list that baffles me (and scares me) the most, it’s this one. You need to be aware of what you are showing in your pictures as well as what is in the background. I wish I were making this next story up, but it’s true. Over the years, I’ve been an avid online dater, and this is the single story that sticks out the most. I had to message a girl one day because she had taken a picture of herself at work in front of her computer. Harmless, right? Well, she apparently did not realize that she had left her log-in information and her password for her work files on a sticky note attached to her computer where anyone looking at her profile could see them clear as day. You HAVE to take some time and make sure that you aren’t releasing sensitive information in your photos. Make sure you don’t have phone numbers, the address on your house, street signs that show where you live, computer passwords, your work badge/ID, or anything else that has sensitive information that you don’t want everyone on the internet to see. Nurses…you’re the biggest culprits with your hospital ID badges or your branded scrubs. If you’re trying to get creepy guys or gals to show up at your work uninvited, that’s a great first step.   You're not Bringing Your A-Game   How much effort do you put into taking pictures when you’re selling your car? You probably spend hours getting the car cleaned, vacuumed, and into the perfect lighting for its photo shoot. How much time and effort did you spend to take your online dating photos? Just grabbed a few from Facebook? Snapped a quick selfie with your webcam? Finding someone to spend the rest of your life with should be a lot more important than how quickly you sell your car. You should be feeling pretty silly now if you’re not bringing your A-Game to the table with your pictures. Online dating is a straightforward process. The more effort you put in, the more you should hope to get in return. If you bring your C-Game, expect mediocre results. If you bring your A-Game, you can expect to get what you’re looking for.   You're Not Putting in Any Effort   Does this mistake seem eerily similar to the last one? That’s because it is. It’s THAT important that we’re going to hammer it home again. Not only do you need to bring your best with your photos, but you need to put in effort continually. Been a few months since you started online dating? Take the time to take some new photos. Not getting the results you want? It’s time to add some new photos. When you don’t put in any effort, it not only won’t pique the interest of any matches, but it’s going to convey that you’re lazy and you really aren’t serious about the process. If you want people to think you’re flaky regardless of whether you are or not, disregard this tip.   Putting It All Together   Remember, online dating is supposed to be fun and not feel like a chore. That being said, doing things the right way will help to ensure you have a much better experience. It’s kind of like Halloween. It’s a night that’s supposed to be all fun and no work. However, the more work that you put into your costume before the night, the bigger splash you’re going to make and the more fun you’re going to have. There’s nothing wrong with approaching fun things with a degree of effort and seriousness. If you’re not sure if you’re doing things the right way, I’m going to make a suggestion. Get in touch with the awesome people here at Brand You Max and let them help. If we were talking about something silly like finding a new rug for your bathroom, I would say just wing it. But we’re talking about finding someone who may have a lasting impact on the rest of your life. If that’s not worth a little bit of seriousness and some help from an expert, we have different priorities. ...

Nowadays, image is everything. Your online image, including your dating profile is out there to be admired, shunned or criticised. With Valentines Day over and for those of you still searching, we had a quick look at what people choose, what traits we favour in dating profiles, above all.   1. We Choose Beautiful Much as they say that beauty is in the eye of the beholder, I think  we can all agree on the following points. We like to look at photos of people who are well groomed, who have a nice smile, who preferably look into the camera, don’t wear sunglasses, don’t do bathroom selfies and are preferably clothed. This really isn’t too much to ask. And yet, more often than not, our experiences are, sadly, the total opposite.   2. We Choose Funny The second most sought after trait is a sense of humour. Laughing help us connect, bond and gel, till we turn serious and meaningful. Not having a sense of humour, or having the wrong sense of humour and by wrong I mean offensive, lacking taste and decency is for most of us a big no-n0   3. We Choose Honest No, we don’t mean somebody who says, “honest” in their every second sentence. It’s more about a sense we get from reading what they write about themselves. We’re surrounded by so much falseness in our daily lives, finding somebody that appears to be honest (until proven otherwise) is a true aphrodisiac.   4. We Choose Confident Yes, we choose confident as opposed to arrogant. We all like people who are blissfully sure of themselves and inspire confidence in others. They are a pleasure to be around. They are a magnet to others. Confidence is one of the highest sought after traits that we’d like to have. We get educated, we train, we take courses, we meditate, we become speakers, all this to gain, to strengthen and to reinforce our confidence. Confidence can win wars, and sure as hell can win hearts.   5. We Choose Happy Generally we’re attracted to happy, positive people. We instinctively aim to pair up with people who have a hopeful outlook on life. We accept a quirky sense of humour, some strong beliefs – it goes to character, but a general gloom and doom can wear on us and it never goes the distance.   6. We Choose Self-Aware The world is changing around us and we’re changing with it. We’ve become more self- aware, more aware of others, of the needs of the planet and our role in having those needs met. We want matches who don’t smoke, who drink moderately, who recycle, who do charity work, who, in one word, care.  And in most cases, this is a non-negotiable.   7. We Choose Sane Contrary to the perception that crazy is interesting, most of us tend to prefer saner versions of humanity as matches. Maybe it’s a survival instinct, maybe we’re past that faze when we thought crazy was sexy. And sane doesn’t necessarily have to mean boring, as we run from boring. There is just too much stimuli around us to accept it. But sane, we vote for that. How to write about ourselves and choose images that tick most boxes? It should be a collective effort, whether we ask the help of a friend or of a dating consultancy service. Self-improvement however is on us. Need help with your dating profile? Don’t hesitate to get in touch. And just so you don’t forget, below is short infographic created by Portia, who’s working at the fastest growing Thai dating site called Truly Thai, because no matter who we are and where we are, we all want the same basic traits in our matches: Nowadays, image is everything. Your online image, including your dating profile is out there to be admired, shunned or criticised. With Valentines Day over and for those of you still searching, we had a quick look at what people choose, what traits we favour in dating profiles, above all.     Need help with your dating profile? Don’t hesitate to get in touch. And just so you don’t forget, below is short infographic created by Portia, who’s working at the fastest growing Thai dating site called Truly Thai, because no matter who we are and where we are, we all want the same basic traits in our matches: ...

Nowadays we’re more and more image obsessed. There is a recipe for everything, for beauty for success, for wealth, for love and our interconnected world is ready to teach us how to obtain just about everything. The first step, of course is the fantasy.  We’re sold more fantasy than we can ever handle. And that translates into our relationships as well. Are fantasies dangerous when it comes to relationships? Or they enhance our love lives? How much is too much and where do we draw the line? is there a one size fits all, or do we all have different needs where fantasies are concerned? And what’s normal, or what’s the new normal? In my blog, as below, I’m trying to find some answers to the questions we all struggle with.  Read more here….....

New Dating App Vene has gone to where no one has ever gone before, by inventing a magic formula that helps your communication with the opposite sex, no uncertainties, no stumbles, no hesitation, no dropping the ball.   1. Gear Up for Dating What comes easy, when it comes to dating? It’s fairly easy to update your wardrobe, get a new haircut, perch yourself on some high stool in some random bar and…..stare. What’s not easy? It’s not easy to start a conversation with a complete stranger. Period. How about online dating? Do you need the wardrobe? Well, yes, eventually. The haircut? Oh, yes. If your photos are anything to go by, and they have to be, a good haircut is a bare minimum. Oh, and you have to add a few likes and some habits for good measure and voila, you have an online profile.   2. Let’s Start Chatting The conversation is surely much easier in the virtual. You’d think. But, why are you then scrolling through profile after profile with no idea what to say? Should you dare a simple “Hello”? Back in the day, when online dating was all new and shiny, a simple hello could actually start a  conversation with a complete stranger. Things have since changed. Nowadays, you see a “Hello” from someone and wonder, “That’s all you got?” Most of us like to be, no, we need to be intrigued, challenged, even shocked, our curiosity piqued to react. Of course, there are books, articles, what’s more, there are courses and films that teach us how to break the ice when trying to date. Some of us get wiser. Others get none the wiser. But what if we got the kind of help that breaks all conventional rules and gives us the tools with which we can affirm our sense of humour and dare use our imagination? With no real risks taken. How? By following a “script”. New dating app Vene is just that. Online dating re imagined. You’ve got your conversation topics all set and a handful of answers to decide upon. Positive, neutral or negative. But are there enough topics? Yes.   3. Unleash Your Potential With 60 topics to choose from, you’ve got variables that could amount to 10.000 different conversations. And that means choice. It means the possibility to connect by exploring like mindedness and a similarity in sense of humour and imagination. What more would you need to get through the awkward first stage of getting to know somebody? No self doubt over “Have I said too much or too little?”, or over “Have I bored or offended?” No dry YES and NO replies to a string of endless “affinity” questions, without the actual “WHY?”. The app’s brilliance is in managing to recreate online two of the best bonding scenarios between people. One is the playground scenario, where life long friendships are born among surreal conversations between children. As we know kids don’t need much to start building a sandcastle together, just some honesty and a bit of fantasy. The other scenario is the house party where heated conversations about abstract topicshave been the building blocks of many romances to come. I for one can vouch for the 2nd scenario, right here and now. Well done Vene. Check them out at www.getvene.com ...

Flowers and chocolates, delicate heart shaped jewelry, a trip to Paris, a balloon ride, a stadium display screen spelling out “Marry Me”, a beach wedding are just few of the forever famous romantic gestures men make towards their loved ones. But how long does romance last? What can be expected in the following year and the one following that and what about 5-10 years down the line? Will flowers and chocolates do? And what about men? Do they wish to be romanced too, just as most women do?   1. Why Do Women Need Romance? Let’s look at a possible definition of romance: a feeling of excitement and mystery associated with love. But romance is much more than that. It’s a way to make us feel special, connected, understood and above all, unique. The most important role of romance is to communicate. Romantic gestures say more than words. Romantic symbols like matching rings can strengthen a couple’s bond. Some couples go as far as wearing matching outfits or tattoos, or vials of each other’s blood around their necks. It’s all about the matching. There are many “ready to wear” romantic musts that are passed down from generation to generation. But are they failsafe? What happens if you go along with some of them and later on you realise they are not for you? Read more…....

We’ve been talking to the lovely Madeleine Mason, from PASSIONSMITHS (passionsmiths.com), London’s Premier Dating and Relationship Experts, about why it is important to brand yourself in your personal life.  Here is what she wanted to know and you might want to know as well:   Tell me a bit about Brand You. What made you create it? Brand You is an online image and dating consulting website. Its name originates from the desire to raise awareness of the need to stand out from the crowd for higher dating success. I created it as a response to my own online dating experience, that meant sifting through hundreds of dating profiles, that were drab, boring and repetitive and as such nearly identical in content and really poor in photo quality and choice.   Why is it important for people to ‘brand’ themselves? Branding is everywhere nowadays: the more unique the product or the service, the more skilled the candidate for the job, the better the chances for success. We all aim to brand ourselves in our professional lives. Why stop there? Online dating is firstly about grabbing someone’s attention. How best to do that than to stand out with what’s unique about us. What makes people attractive?  Read more…...

JOIN ME at the 2nd UK Dating and Relationship Conference in London, on Saturday 11 July. I’ll be talking about how to STAND OUT FROM THE DATING CROWD! Find out more: https://datingandrelationshipconferences.com   Hello, I’m reaching out to a few of my favourite friends, fans, readers and social media followers with a special invitation to an exciting, one-of-a-kind event… Would you like to be part of a fun, informative, inspiring and empowering seminar that will help you improve your relationship skills? You are invited to join me and six of the best dating and relationship experts in the UK at a whole day conference that is the first of its kind – the Dating and Relationship Conference! BOOK YOUR TICKET NOW www.datingandrelationshipconferences.com Our excellent speaker line-up includes the following UK dating experts and coaches, offering these presentations: Des O’Connor: Founder, Author, International Motivational Speaker, Award Winning Relationship Coach and Success Mentor “How Men and Women’s Brains are Different When in Relationships and How Understanding These Differences Will Improve Your Love Life” Elliot Kay – The Coach with the Hat – Peak Performance Coach, Author and International speaker “How Much Do You Value Your Relationships? The Importance of Understanding Values” Nicki Vee – Master Coach and Mentor Who Helps Single Women to “Let Him Find You” “The Fundamental Secrets That Have Helped So Many Women to Be Found By an Amazing Masculine Man” “Why So Many Relationships Bring Pain Rather Than Pleasure” Marina Pearson – Effortless Living Specialist, Best Selling Author, Ted and International Speaker The Key Factors That Create Effortless Relationships With Yourself and Others Around You Graham W Price – Chartered Psychologist, Development Trainer, Best-Selling Author and Relationships Coach and Trainer “How to Deal With Challenges in Relationships and How to Achieve Positive Results“ Jill Roberts – Relationship Expert and Inspirational Speaker “Amazing Relationships: Making Masculine and Feminine Energy Work for You” Laura Gub – Founder of Brand You Simply Your Dating Coach and SWEXPERT Blogger That’s myself:     Why it is Important to Stand Out From the Crowd How to Convey Your Unique Personality and Come Across as Approachable in Your Dating Profile BOOK YOUR TICKET NOW www.datingandrelationshipconferences.com This is the UK’s second conference exclusively dedicated to dating and relationships. And you don’t have to be single! This isn’t a “singles event” – men and women are welcome to attend whether they’re single, married or in a relationship. Wherever you are in your relationship journey, this event promises to deliver a day filled with informative and inspiring messages. At our conference, singles, couples and married people will learn how to: Find, attract and keep the right partner Discover why you choose the partners that you choose Understand the opposite sex to improve your future relationships Be more self-confident and love yourself more Let go of any unresolved issues and pain Resolve conflicts with better self-understanding and clearer communication Are you ready to book your ticket for this first-of-its-kind event? What: The UK Dating and Relationship Conference When: Saturday 11th July 2015 at 9:00 a.m until 5.30 p.m. Where: DoubleTree by Hilton Hotel London Victoria, 2 Bridge Place, Victoria, London, SW1V 1QA (2 minutes from Victoria station) BOOK YOUR TICKET NOW www.datingandrelationshipconferences.com We also have sponsorships available! Would you like to book an exhibit stand for your business or organisation? Please go to: www.datingandrelationshipconferences.com/sponsorships/ for details on how to book a sponsorship to introduce your company to our audience of affluent, inspirational professionals. We hope to see you at the Dating and Relationship Conference on the 11 July! Sincerely, Laura Gub P.S. We fully expect that this event will SELL OUT. So please don’t delay – book your ticket now!...

It was the summer of 2002 when a friend of mine introduced me to Lavalife, a Canadian dating website. Thus my journey into the world of online dating began. It did stop shortly after though, as I started dating someone I had met at one of the workshops I was attending at the time. Needless to say, in 2002 dating sites weren’t widely discussed, they were more of a hush hush kinda subject. We’ve come a long way since. So, what is the success rate of online dating these days?   1.The Success Rate of Online Dating via Traditional Dating Sites Whether it’s Match.com, Lovestruck or E-Harmony, OKCupid, or PlentyOfFish, traditional dating sites have one thing in common, a huge database. Thus they can make us believe that we have “infinite” matches. But when taking a closer look, we realize that maybe on the surface, we have a lot in common with a lot of people, however, since we’re not putting together a football team, the weeding process can be long and painful. We’re bound to communicate with loads of people, go on many dates and start all over again. However, whether due to luck or hard work, an increasing number of people find their partner on these sites. All hope is not lost.   2.The Success Rate of Online Dating via Niche Dating Sites Niche dating sites are very much in. Some are independent, like Star Trek Dating, others are branches of traditional sites, like LavalifePrime (for the over 45 year old). They are a brilliant idea of grouping people based on main interests, orientation and preferences. Suddenly the pool is much smaller. Yet, the chances of finding somebody you match with are much greater.   3.The Success Rate of Online Dating via Dating Apps Dating apps are all the rage nowadays and as far as going on dates goes, they’re probably leading. Predominantly free, these apps do have their drawbacks, though. It has been recently reported that 42% of men on Tinder are already in a relationship. New dating app Hinge, thus decided on a bold move. They publish all users relationship status. Since Hinge is linked to the user’s Facebook profile, whatever status they show on there will appear on the new version of Hinge. Apparently on hearing the news, over 400 men deleted their profiles. [caption id="attachment_458" align="alignnone" ] Online Dating - Red Billboard on Sky Background. Business Concept.[/caption]   Dating apps are no stranger to going niche either. There is one for men who have beards and those who like to stroke them. There is one for “cheeky” people, called Cheeky Boo. Well, not for actually cheeky ones as such. It’s a clever app that can set up people on a date in an instant if they’re both free. The choices are endless. The commitment of the people using these apps, less so.   4.The Success Rate of Online Dating via Social Media Since connecting with friends of friends not only gives people access to some accurate background information, thus elevating trust, but also guarantees some sort of common interests as well, dating social media connections seems like a good idea. No wonder the dating app Hinge built it’s whole concept on these connections. Although these circles are much smaller than the selection of potential matches offered by a traditional dating site, in some ways it’s like being back at school. It’s just virtual.   5.The Success Rate of Online Dating via Social Events Secret singles nights or Thames River Cruises, these events are for the socially bold. However, they do work. Kudos to dating sites bringing in the trend, which now has been taken over by Meetup as well. Just try not to bump into an ex. It could be awkward.   6. What Else Is Out There to Help Our Quest For Love? Matchmakers. Yes, for all of you who’d like to have the load taken off your shoulders, there are some fantastic services run by talented and dedicated people. Matchmaking is an art and requires the finest intuition and skill. It also requires knowledge. One of the best matchmakers in town is Caroline Brealey of Mutual Attraction.  And, just as there is an ever growing need for long lasting relationships, there is a need for more good matchmakers as well. That’s why, it should not come as a surprise that Caroline, after writing her book “Matchmaking – Create Your Own Business” is now running a special course called The Matchmaker Academy. With such wonderful services, rest assured our love life is in good hands. Now it’s up to us to contribute our share, with dedication and keeping an open mind. Life and love are an intriguing journey here on Earth. If you’d like to read more of our articles or need help with your dating profiles, click here....